I'm a successful, non-smoking, non-ugly, no baggage single girl in Vancouver and I'm so frustrated with the the lack of decent men in Vancouver and it's surrounding areas so I've decided to start a blog about it.
Let me start out by saying that there are definately more women than men here. For example, my girlfriends and I went out to a few local bars and restaurants in Yaletown last weekend and at one point I looked around and noticed that I was surrounded by other groups of girls and there were about ten men scattered throughout us all. When I looked deeper around the room, I noticed that many of the men had wedding bands on!!! Where are all the single men???? Come out, Come out, wherever you are!!! But seriously, is there a secret place that successful, non-smoking, non-ugly, no baggage single men hang out?
Which leads me to my next point... The random single men that are out these days are jerks. I think that because they can have their pick out of dozens of beautiful women due to the horrific guy/girl ratio, they feel that they can be assholes and treat women like they are disposable. This is unfair! They should be the ones sitting at home, waiting for our calls, wondering if we're interested! But unfortunately if you aren't interested in them, they laugh and say, 'Neeexxxt!'. This is so wrong. I've even read about a guy that told his friend in Toronto to come to Vancouver and 'line up for the buffet of women, they'll sleep with you on the first date hoping you will fall in love with them'. To that I say, 'WHAT?!!!!!'.
I'm just so frustrated and would love some feedback.
Single in the 604
first of all, you will not meet any man of true qualities in a bar. this is a general statement but for the most part, people in bars are looking for drunk sex because they are too scared and immature to enter an integral relationship of any sort. negativity is a sign that you lack in self love. I have been there and there is nothing wrong with this. you now have an opportunity in this moment to take on some new actions in your life.
ReplyDeletewhat you are focusing on here is exactly what is going to keep showing up for you. turn your attention to nurturing a relationship with you. take your focus away from the "assholes" and start envisioning what you want in a relationship with a man. this applies to all relations with others. find and read a book on the laws of the universe and you will start to attract what you truly desire in your life. if you do not know about the laws of attraction than I recommend watching the movie The Secret, a great place to start.
these words I have written are spoken from a man who has lived 30 years immaturely and has since awakened to greater possibilities for living a joyous live, as we are all meant to do. all actions and attractions in life start with a single thought. change your thoughts and your life will change, promise. my awakening started with a one weekend course called the Landmark Forum, the ride of a lifetime! have fun
Thank you for your comments Cameron!
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