Thank you Cameron….

Let me start out by saying thank you to Cameron for his comment yesterday. My blog is written for fun and amusement yet mostly for your feedback, so I really do appreciate it.  Bring on the comments!  I also don’t want to come across as a cynical, pessimistic, and untrusting woman who hates men; as I’m quite the opposite; I am confident, very optimistic and hopeful and I LOVE men. 

I had something else in mind for what I’d write about today but instead I’d like to respond to Cameron first. J 

First and foremost, how do you know I won’t meet my soul mate in a bar…? I drink socially and I want to ensure that my partner does as well.  Ha Ha!  People always say, ‘You should go hang out at Chapters, you’ll meet a guy there for sure.’  Umm… The only books I read are self-help books and there’s usually only women hanging around that area.  Eek!  I’ve explored many, many avenues; I spend my time at sporting events, comedy festivals and concerts etc. therefore surrounding myself with all the things I enjoy and my attempts always turn futile. 

Just so you know, some of the books that live in my home and are read frequently consist of the following… ‘The Secret’(which I also have in audio), ‘The Soulmate Secret’ and many, many more books of this nature.  I live ‘The Secret’.  I visualize my soul mate and all of his wonderful attributes and qualities; he’s my kind of handsome, he loves family and friends, he is really funny, a handyman and ambitious.  I meditate and do exercises to create ‘feelingizations’ of what it will feel like when I meet my soul mate and spend the rest of my life with him.  I’ve even written letters to the people that have hurt me to forgive them.  I’ve opened myself to love in every single, possible way.  Trust me when I say, I’m a strong believer in ‘The Secret’.  I know I will meet the man of my dreams. 

I trust the universe; but in all honesty I’m not getting any younger.  I am very active in my community and have a very eclectic group of friends from all walks of life.  All those friends know that I want to share my life with someone and therefore are always looking but to no avail.  Vancouver is a tough ‘market’.  That’s my point.  I wasn’t being negative in my first blog, I was only pointing out the obvious lack of decent men in Vancouver!  I love myself very much, I know I deserve true love and I will have it.  I know my soul mate is out there getting ready to meet me and vice-versa. 

Signed,

Secretly Waiting ;)